elderly marriage

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elderly marriage

My dad has been very sick for about 9 months. mom is in great health. Lately they have been fighting about non important things and blowing out of proportion. They call or come by my house and talk to me about it. I have given my mom especially advice to talk to a professional. My dad is going to get counseling starting this week but my mom refuses to deal with the issue. She blames my dad. My sister is helping me talk to my mom but my brother is blind to all that is happening. The majority of the care giving is placed on me because I live closest. Today I finally had enough and called my sibs in for reinforcement but one didn't get the message and the other didn't want to hear what is really going on what do I do. Thank heavens for my husband he is the greatest support I have in dealing with my parents. I need a good support group in the Phoenix Area.