i feel like I'm losing me

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i feel like I'm losing me

My father in law had been living with us for over 3years due to the fact he could no longer stay alone with his health and horrible drinking problem.
I really felt that moving him with us would help but I feel like he thinks of me as his dead mother our dead wife. I realize he's sick and am trying to do everything I can but nothing is good enough. My husband and I aren't even intimate anymore. My father I law demands all the attention and when he doesn't get it he makes himself sick enough to go back to the hospital.
I can't find any support groups or I would be there. He feels like I owe him thi